I took two weeks when my father passed away. -- Hokie360 05/18/2018 11:44AM
Hard to figure. I lost both of my parents this winter and missed 2 days -> -- HOKIERIT 05/18/2018 10:54AM
Companies usually give 3 -- VaTechie 05/18/2018 10:53AM
Now ..estate work is somethnig entirely different. Doing that now and-> -- HOKIERIT 05/18/2018 10:58AM
So very true -- ScottsdaleHokie 05/18/2018 12:05PM
Yes, I did not have a house to deal with -- VaTechie 05/18/2018 11:11AM
Indeed! ** -- HOKIERIT 05/18/2018 11:13AM
My 2 cents (inside) -- FfxStationHokie 05/18/2018 10:42AM
And that's another issue. No policy. I asked the owner this morning -- 48zip 05/18/2018 10:53AM
Thanks to all for your input and advice. Very much appreciated. -- 48zip 05/18/2018 10:23AM
The 3 days between passing and funeral. ** -- hoosnowahokie 05/18/2018 10:21AM
I'm union, so our benefits kick butt. Here's what we get, on the company: -- Nova Hokie 95 05/18/2018 10:19AM
WOW..that is generous ** -- HOKIERIT 05/18/2018 11:04AM
I took 1 week for the passing of my wife... -- banishedtothelounge 05/18/2018 10:02AM
Better man than I. I'd be done for awhile if I had to go through that. ** -- CochraneResident 05/18/2018 10:22AM
It wasn't 'sudden' but I still go thru 'stuff'... ** -- banishedtothelounge 05/18/2018 12:20PM
Ive seen 3. We used annual or personal leave. ** -- TomTurkey 05/18/2018 09:58AM
I've seen 3. -- halesvb11 05/18/2018 09:20AM
Guess I'm the weird one. I never missed more than a few hours of work for -- Hokie CPA 05/18/2018 08:51AM
It all depends. My father died and I said "Good Riddance!". This whole... -- CochraneResident 05/18/2018 09:43AM
That's more like what I've done. I've been lucky in that I've never had -- 48zip 05/18/2018 09:09AM
On the other hand, I was gone for 4 days when my wife's father passed. -- Hokie CPA 05/18/2018 08:55AM
I'd give 2 days, and then allow them as much of their earned leave as -- CochraneResident 05/18/2018 08:46AM
How do you schedule work to meet previously arranged deadlines? -- 48zip 05/18/2018 08:48AM
I've never been a situation where it was life or death to get something -- CochraneResident 05/18/2018 09:11AM
Generally I agree, but is it a 24/7 thing? -- 48zip 05/18/2018 09:17AM
Haha. Well, you were withholding info there. Obviously has to be well -- CochraneResident 05/18/2018 09:31AM
Yeah, that's the lesson I learned. ** -- 48zip 05/18/2018 09:40AM
A post-funeral phone call is justified. -- TomTurkey 05/18/2018 10:21AM
A day or two. ** -- reestuart 05/18/2018 08:43AM
For a grandparent with no travel time necessary, 2 or 3 days. ** -- RoswellGAHokie 05/18/2018 08:35AM
I took off over a month -- Hokie Koooster 05/18/2018 08:31AM
Well, I think timing and distance is an issue... -- JoesterVT 05/18/2018 08:23AM
If they're local, there's also the chance it's a MUCH closer relationship -- Nova Hokie 95 05/18/2018 10:23AM
It also means a stop by the office isn't as hard as a long distance trip. -- 48zip 05/18/2018 12:34PM
Our company gives 4 days - I think 5 is fair ** -- FfxStationHokie 05/18/2018 08:19AM
For a grandparent? -- Stork 05/18/2018 08:20AM
I think 4 days for a grandparent is reasonable ** -- FfxStationHokie 05/18/2018 08:21AM
What does one do for 4-5 days? ** -- 48zip 05/18/2018 08:29AM
Grieve ** -- BRVT 05/18/2018 08:34AM
A follow up, not meaning to sound harsh here. -- 48zip 05/18/2018 08:47AM
I did the same thing, and felt guilty that I missed what i did. I stayed> -- HOKIERIT 05/18/2018 11:12AM
Bingo. ** -- 48zip 05/18/2018 12:30PM
Serious question. What did that get you? -- ScottsdaleHokie 05/18/2018 09:43AM
Couldn't agree more. Family is top priority. -- 48zip 05/18/2018 09:50AM
So if this wasn't sudden, why was there no pre-planning? -- Nova Hokie 95 05/18/2018 10:24AM
Yep. I said this above. I spoke with the owner this morning. -- 48zip 05/18/2018 10:55AM
I get the idea perhaps you think this employee might be sandbagging a bit -- Nova Hokie 95 05/18/2018 10:59AM
He has struggled. This hasn't changed my opinion of him. -- 48zip 05/18/2018 12:29PM
In all seriousness, a dedicated employee may welcome the distraction of -- BRVT 05/18/2018 09:11AM
THAT'S the key word. Dedication. -- 48zip 05/18/2018 09:24AM
I think it is generational -- RTFC 05/18/2018 10:24AM
So, the employer/client matters more than your grandparent? Dude, this -- CochraneResident 05/18/2018 09:34AM
That isn't what I said at all. Don't jump on my ass. The whole point -- 48zip 05/18/2018 09:46AM
My apologies. Didn't mean to lecture. Just giving another side, and -- CochraneResident 05/18/2018 10:24AM
Thanks. None needed. again, a difficult subject. Thanks for the input. ** -- 48zip 05/18/2018 10:50AM
Yep. Not a battle you can win or even should fight. ** -- CPRVHokie 05/18/2018 09:44AM